My Husband Is Hot!
My husband is so hot!
Did you know this thought is a choice?
It isn’t a fact he is sexy or attractive. It isn’t a fact that your significant other is hot either.
I guarantee there are people in the world who would not agree with your thoughts on his hotness.
Attraction is created in your brain. Not in your eyes. It is not involuntary.
If attraction were involuntary, there is no way that you could go from being crazy attracted, can’t keep your hands off him; to, I’m just not that turned on by him anymore.
Attraction is a decision we make everyday.
My husband and I have been married for over 20 years. Trust me, there are plenty of things that have changed about each of us, and if I wanted to focus on them I could. But why would I want to?
I want to notice his beautiful blue eyes. I want to admire his strong hands that are dirty from hard work. I want to love that he loves to snowmobile and hunt and raft and do anything outdoors…even when it takes him away from me. I want to notice how hot he looks in his jeans, even though they are a bigger size then they used to be. I want to notice everything that is attractive about him.
I tell my brain what to look for because when left to manage itself, my brain can focus on all of the things that don’t feel good or look less attractive and where is the fun in that?